My mom and both grandmothers have moved from earth and are, hopefully, watching over us and guiding us. But there have been other “moms” in my life too and many of them are still here.
We can learn not only from the moms in our families, but from the moms we come in contact with … some of them may even be close to our own age. What we learn can be positive or negative, but every experience is a learning experience.
What will you learn from the moms around you? What did you learn from your mom or grandma?
My mom was a caring, nurturing person who tried to make those around her comfortable. She was encouraging despite the pain, depression, and frustration she often felt. I know that not all folks have a positive relationship with their own mom but I hope there is a woman in your life who is a positive role model. If you need a role model, seek one out … most people are glad to help others and would be glad you’ve asked.
A mentor can be a great asset to your life even if things are going well … we all need encouragement on a regular basis and often times we just don’t get it. Find a person or group which you feel can support your endeavors and get connected.
Whether you have a positive or negative relationship with your mom, call her on Mother’s Day just to say “hi” and keep it light. Let me know how it goes.